The Truth about Handcuffs

They're great & I love them. I'm not a master of wild kink and hardcore anything. But I'm prone to a more submissive style at times (but I'm no pillow princess thank you very much!) & thoroughly enjoy when someone can top me well. That being said I still like to top a woman myself upon occasion. Lucky for me my partner & I are a perfect match sexually. She's more dominant but not so much that our sex is always about that. We're big fans of variety in everything including sex.

The funny thing is that we're both pretty experienced yet keep finding things to do to & with each other that are new to us. This is where handcuffs come in. I've always used long silk scarves to link hands or ankles together. In the past handcuffs seemed less appealing because of the cold metal and clinking of the small chain connecting the cuffs.

We were in a local sex shop a few weeks back looking for a 2nd dildo when I spotted some handcuffs on display. Goodness knows what drew me to them but I was spellbound. All I could think was how hot it would be to feel that thick metal against my wrists while my beloved did whatever she wished to me. I beckoned her over to me & showed her the cuffs & asked what she thought. We decided to get a pair with safety locks (safety first!) and experimented with them that evening.

Last night was the first time we really used them through out our sex. It was so fun to be just that bit helpless as she fucked me. I asked what she thought as she uncuffed me & she said she liked them. I liked them too! Next time we're going to make the cuffs just a bit tighter and maybe get just a bit rougher. Tonight though we're just going to have what we call "slow mo" sex & enjoy the softness of each other. One just has to have room in their sex life for such preciousness.